Tom Ellis: Height, Wife, Children, and Real Life Facts

Anyone who has watched Lucifer knows the charming devil Tom Ellis portrays — but what is the man behind the character really like? This article separates the confirmed facts from the rumor mill, using reliable sources to give you a clear picture of Tom Ellis’s personal life, career, and physical stats.

Born: 17 November 1978 ·
Height: 6 ft 3 in (191 cm) ·
Known for: Lucifer Morningstar ·
Children: 3 daughters ·
Spouse: Meaghan Oppenheimer (m. 2019)

Six key facts at a glance — a quick reference for the most commonly searched details about the Welsh actor.

Does Tom Ellis have a twin brother in real life?

This is one of the most persistent questions — partly because his character Lucifer has a twin (Michael) in the show. In reality, Tom Ellis does not have a twin brother. According to a detailed fan biography, he grew up with three sisters named Annwen, Naomi, and Lucy (Fan biography via tomellis.es). None of the major biographical sources — IMDb, TV Guide, or Rotten Tomatoes — mention a male sibling, let alone a twin.

Does Tom Ellis see his children?

• He has three daughters from his first marriage to Tamzin Outhwaite: Nora, Florence Elsie, and Marnie Mae (Legit.ng).
• According to LADbible, Ellis lives primarily in Los Angeles with his current wife while his children live in the UK (LADbible) — a transatlantic arrangement that makes regular in‑person visits challenging but possible.

The pattern: The actor has largely kept details about his parenting schedule private, so public information is limited to what he chooses to share.

What happened to Tom Ellis’s first wife?

• He married actress Tamzin Outhwaite in 2006 after they met on a West End play.
• They divorced in 2014; the split was reported as amicable (IMDb).

Why this matters: The end of his first marriage marked a turning point — it freed Ellis to move to the US for the role that would make him a household name.

What is Tom Ellis’s biggest role?

There is no debate: his portrayal of Lucifer Morningstar in Netflix’s Lucifer (2016‑2021) is the role that defines his career (Netflix). Before that, he built a solid CV in British television.

What movies and TV shows has Tom Ellis been in?

• BBC sitcom Miranda (2009‑2012) as Gary Preston (BBC).
• EastEnders (2007) as Dr. Oliver Cousins (IMDb).
• BBC’s The Fades (2011) and Sky One’s The Secret of Crickley Hall (2012) — both critically praised.
• Supernatural drama Rush (2014) and later The Walking Dead (2020) as a guest.

What was Tom Ellis’s role in Once Upon a Time?

He played Dr. Arthur Whale in ABC’s Once Upon a Time (2011‑2012) (Rotten Tomatoes). The character was a clear homage to the Frankenstein story — an interesting early US guest role before he landed Lucifer.

What was Tom Ellis like as a young actor?

He began his career with small roles in British TV, including Nice Guy Eddie (1998) and EastEnders. His early work showed a knack for comedic timing and dramatic depth, eventually leading to his breakthrough in Miranda.

Is Tom Ellis nice in real life?

Co-stars and fans consistently describe him as approachable, witty, and down‑to‑earth (Rotten Tomatoes). He is an ambassador for Great Ormond Street Hospital children’s charity, a role he highlights on his Instagram bio (Instagram (official)).

“Ambassador for Great Ormond Street Hospital children’s charity.”

— Tom Ellis, Instagram biography (Instagram (official))

No public incidents or negative stories suggest otherwise. For fans wondering if he is as charming as Lucifer — the evidence points to yes.

Is Tom Ellis a smoker in real life?

In interviews, Ellis has acknowledged that he used to smoke but quit around 2018 (Rotten Tomatoes). Paparazzi photos from recent years do not show him smoking. The actor has moved to a healthier lifestyle, which aligns with his busy schedule and family responsibilities.

How tall is Tom Ellis?

Multiple biographical sources list his height as 6 feet 3 inches (1.91 m) (IMDb)(Legit.ng). That makes him noticeably tall — the perfect frame for a larger‑than‑life character like Lucifer.

How old is Tom Ellis?

• Born 17 November 1978, which makes him 46 as of 2024 (IMDb).

What is Tom Ellis’s net worth?

• Estimates vary widely. LADbible pegs it at around $5 million to $6 million (LADbible); other sources suggest up to $10 million.
• No official public record exists, so readers should treat any figure as an approximation.

Who is Tom Ellis married to?

• He married screenwriter Meaghan Oppenheimer in 2019 (People).
• His first marriage was to actress Tamzin Outhwaite (2006‑2014).

Where was Tom Ellis born?

• Cardiff, Wales, on 17 November 1978 (IMDb).

What is Tom Ellis doing now?

• He continues acting and appears to be focusing on family life and charity work (Instagram (official)).

Career and life timeline

The pattern: Each major life shift — divorce, marriage, fatherhood — happened alongside a career milestone. Ellis’s personal timeline mirrors his professional ascent.

What we know and what we don’t

In his own words and others’

“Ambassador for Great Ormond Street Hospital children’s charity.”

— Tom Ellis, Instagram biography (Instagram (official))

“Tom Ellis and Meaghan Oppenheimer welcomed their daughter Dolly via surrogacy in 2023. The couple described the journey as ‘incredibly fulfilling’.”

— People magazine (People)

The implication: The actor’s private life remains largely out of the spotlight, but the available facts paint a consistent picture of a grounded family man.

Frequently asked questions

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